14-year-old
Natalie Gonzalez did something her mother, and grandmother, never
imagined. She joined the soccer team.
Natalie says, “I like being with my friends at school because
I get to know them better. Also, it just feels good when you win
a game for your school.” Her mother, Magda Gonzalez, says, “I
also remember when I told my parents that she was going to be playing
soccer, they were kind of shocked. You know, ‘A girl playing
soccer? What are you doing to her?’”
Across the country, only 36 percent of Hispanic girls in the
tenth grade play a sport, compared to 52% of non-Hispanic girls.
Why?
Milena Garcia Skollar, a family therapist and licensed social
worker in Atlanta, says, “It could be childcare, taking care
of younger siblings. It could be translation. Perhaps you know
English a little bit better than your Mom does, and so she needs
you to go to the bank with her.”
Skollar says, in the Hispanic culture, girls are not always encouraged
to be athletes. Magda Gonzalez says, “The concept is the
female is pretty much trained to take care of the house and the
kids.”
But experts fear Hispanic girls are missing the benefits of being
on a team: exercise, staying drug-free, better grades. Skollar
says, “In order to have a vested interest in school, you
have to feel connected at some level. Sports are an excellent way
to have your child feel connected.”
Natalie’s mom says soccer has been good for the whole family.
She says, “For us as the parents, we have been able to make
friends. It’s just an exciting time. I actually look forward
to go to the games.”
Natalie’s Dad Dario Gonzalez says, “I’m so
proud to see her trying to do her best.” Experts encourage
all parents…especially Hispanics…to call the school,
meet with coaches, and find out more about the athletic opportunities
available to your children. Natalie says, “It’s great
because I feel like I can do any sport that I want to with my parents
backing me up all the way.”
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